Lost yourself after pandemic/kids

So I’ve had 2 kids back to back one right befor the pandemic and the second during the pandemic. Having kids is hard enough and a huge change physically, mentally and emotionally let alone during a pandemic. I feel like I’ve totally lost myself… I don’t do much for myself anymore, no time or energy. I rarely get dressed up, or wear makeup, haven’t gotten my nails done in over 2 years. My body has completely changed and I’m slowly accepting it, for carrying my two beautiful girls. I haven’t really seen any of my girl friends. I’ve also lost a lot of friendships due to having kids (different lifestyle then some of my friends) and the pandemic. Just venting wondering if any other momas feel me..