some questions for the girls!

hey y’all! so my boyfriend and i are very responsible when it comes to having sex, with him using condoms. i can’t do birth control (atleast the pill) because my body reacts to it weirdly and gives me a blood clot every. single. time. ive almost died twice from it so i’m absolutely terrified to try it. anyways: when we are having sex, we have to use non latex because i’m extremely allergic, but afterwards i almost always notice some swelling inside and it’s almost like i’m getting dry during the deed and it’s irritating my inside. i’m not an expert on lubricants or anything because i used to not have to use any until a few months ago. could i get some tips and tricks for lubricant brands for use with non latex condoms, or even natural things to help my hoohah get lubricated enough on its own? we never do it without a condom so that’s not even an option😂 we make sure to have enough foreplay and i’m wet before but it just seems to dry out🤣 please help!!