Bed transition help!

Any tips or tricks for transitioning to a toddler or twin bed? My near 2 year old is starting to climb out of her crib. We have had the toddler rail on it for awhile, but pushed that side up against the wall because she wouldn’t stay in bed (or even her room for that matter). Our apartment has swing handles that she’s been able to open for quite some time.

We’ve tried redirecting, giving choices (sleep in bed or floor), laying with her… but nap and bedtime now take 2-3 hours just to settle. And that’s not sustainable for daycare or Grandma’s (or me, even…)

I’m fresh out of ideas. Help?