Dating again with a child

Hello. Needing to hear some successful love stories about women who were able to marry or date after having a kid/kids by someone else. Me and my sons father had our first kid 9 months ago and it didn’t work. It has been so toxic and he actually did something that could’ve taken the life of me and our son. So for that reason, his family nor him is allowed around my child at all anymore. But I also fear my son only knowing me and my side of the family if I never date again. I dream of meeting a man who will accept and love my child just as his own and maybe we can create a blended family. I’m open to someone who has kids or that doesnt. Someone with a family who will also accept my son and take him in. But at 25 years old I feel like most guys my age really aren’t open to blending families and it seems like you’re turned down by someone if you have kids and they don’t. Which is their preference but idk. Seems hard trying to date as a single mom. I’m just venting yall. Give me some hope 😌💓 my mom keeps telling me the right man who is for me will come around and accept everything that comes with me including my child.