Why can’t I?

Question

I’m 33, have 2 children, married for 8 years.
I enjoy sex, but why can’t I orgasm while having sex? I’ve never been able to. I am only able to achieve that while alone, and clitoral stimulation only using a vibrator.

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I get turned on and get off really easily. I was one of those weird kids that masterbated long before I even knew what sex was.
I’m a 27 year old virgin, so i can honestly not tell you if this will work for you with your partner…
I suggest you should practice hands free orgasms. It’s a way to achieve mind blowing full body orgasms without any stimulation. 
You start out by just breathing deep breaths, inhale and exhale. The key is to relax and just let everything go. Don’t think of anything but just focus on your body. Imagine a tingle starting at your fingertips, going up your arms and down your body and then up again. When you successfully imagine the tingle start imagining a warmth in your pelvis, imagine the warmth moving slowly up and down your body. When you feel the warmth imagine that energy exactly where you want it and imagine it building. 
If you successfully get it right, the orgasmic energy will buil beyond what you thought possible that can lead to the best orgasms ever. It also builds up over a 30min+ time period.
If you weren’t married I would have suggested looking up “erotic hypnosis for women” with this you have someone who guides you trough the above process. You could try tantric sex, yoni massages, even experiment with “The How to om video” with your husband. 
All these methods are ways to become aware of your sensual self, build orgasmic energy, and feel what you more than capable to feel.

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That's actually really common. Lots of women can't orgasm through penetrative sex alone.

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Most woman need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, I’d be the same, it’s a lot more common then you think

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Most women I know only climax with clitoral stimulation, myself included. All bodies are different and the vagina is a particular thing. It's not wrong to be able to cum one way or the other, but odds are if clit works for you, penetration will not. I've only ever cum once with my partner inside me and it was while being stimulated externally as well. 
Do what makes you feel good! It's totally normal!

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When I have sex with my husband, the only way I can reach orgasm is through oral sex, not penetration. 
I also need a lot of fore play beforehand. You’re not alone!

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Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.  The clitoris is akin to the penis head.

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I’m in the same boat. 2 kids, married 8 years. But I’m 26. I ONLY orgasm alone with a vibrator or shower head.

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