I’ll try to make this short. I’ve been with my BF for almost 2 years. During this time we been having great sex, he sometimes either had issues getting it up, and staying hard. I didn’t say anything at first, but when it became constant I would think to myself off of me? Is he cheating on me? What’s going on. The icing on the cake was the last two time we were intimate he literally got soft while inside me. I got upset ran out the room crying. He ran after me and explained to me or wasn’t me but that it was him. He always said that after not being able to perform. He finally bottle down and told me he had ED, he’s had off for years since coming back Iraq. I told him that’s nothing to be ashamed of and that he should had communicated this with me.

Had out is anyone currently dating/ married to someone with ED and if so how do you handle it? Unfortunately I have a high sex drive so I want out on demand and sometimes he can’t deliver. I Do not plan on leaving him for something he can’t control I just need to know how to handle it. Any input would be helpful thanks in advance