So I’m 23 years old turning 24 next month. I have a bf of almost 4 years. We don’t live together and we both still live at our parents house. We plan on moving out together next year when I’m completely done with school and I can start my career. My bf house is very lay back he can do literally what ever he wants. My house is different. My parents are very strict and over the year they have eased a bit but I would still consider them strict.

So I’m coming here for some advice. My bf and I never been on a trip together. We been wanting to go on a trip for a long time. We go on day trips but sometimes we are out far and it’s getting late my bf suggest on getting a hotel to spend the night. But I always refuse because I don’t want to deal with my parents the next day when there upset. I see friends of mine going on camping trips, trips to different states, overnight trips with there bf and it makes me jealous because I want to do that to but I’m afraid of my parents more so my dad. My mom knows I’m not a virgin anymore years ago so I know she has no issue with me going on trips with my bf. In the other hand my dad still thinks I’m a virgin 😮‍💨. He’s very old fashioned as believes I should be waiting. I never ever told him that I want to save myself till marriage so idk where he got that idea from. My bf and I have been together for so long that I’m still surprised that he still believes I’m a virgin.

So anyways I know if I go on a trip with my bf my dad is going to assume that I lost my virginity and he’s going to throw a HUGE fit. And I’m honestly afraid of telling him am not because I’m afraid that he’s going to yell at me and call me names and not allow my bf to come over anymore.

Any advice?