Am I too fat for this?

Abbs

I just had my second baby a few months ago and I gained so much weight and I’m still gaining even though I had him a few months ago (going to the DR about it because it was like 20lbs in two weeks) anyways I feel like I just look like a whale I feel like I am too fat for this now….what do you guys think? I need an opinion fro male mine who isn’t my husband because he loves me lol