okay mommas, i’m almost 8 weeks postpartum and have the okay from doc. i had an episiotomy but have had absolutely no pain since a week after birth. i myself have explored just to see what the outside felt like and even touching everything there’s no pain but what i’m wondering is what can i expect when having sex again. does it feel insanely different? is the pain that bad? does having had an episiotomy make things more painful? whatever answers or advice you have, my ears are open.