met this guy with soley fwb intentions on tinder around a year ago because I realize all I wanted for the time being was pleasure for myself and not worry about commitment. i've had fuck buddies in the past before. since freshman year. nothing new to me.

Turns out I have potential feelings for a guy that I would have never made a first move on either due to being me being strict about "don't ask, don't tell rule". he admitted he had feelings for me it has realize that for the last couple months. unfortunately the last couple months I have seen two other guys (aka slept with) purely for sexual purposes. of course due to not being up to my standards (unlike said Tinder guy) I have since blocked both of them.

I shouldn't feel obligated to tell him before making our relationship official. it's purely my business it's my sex life. He was also under the impression we were so-called exclusive fuck buddies throughout seeing each other or whatever. I slept w these other two guys during times I wasn't fucking with him, also my best guy friend. my best friend that I was also very oblivious to not knowing he wanted a relationship later on or has had feelings for me and for a good while. I feel so stupid for not noticing this sooner. this shouldn't be so complicated. it's just casual dating, it's not like we're planning to marry. i'm loyal when I'm an official girlfriend.

In all, I realize telling him would break him. I wouldn't want to tell him unless I knew I have real feelings for him later on.