Desensitized

I’m 23 and in my first relationship, I like my boyfriend, but before we met I never liked being touched.

I’m more welcoming to hugs and handshakes, but anything closer and I become uncomfortable, but with him I don’t feel as uncomfortable, but I don’t feel aroused.

We’re both virgins, we kiss and rub, but in the beginning I did feel hot and tingly down there but now nothing.

He’ll touch me all over and even rub my vagina from outside my clothes and I don’t feel anything.

Does anyone else have this problem, I do really like him and I know he likes me and is very sensitive to my touch??

We’ve been together for about 4 months now.