Little back story, my partner and I are 25 and 22. We both decided we want to go back to school and start our careers, we know we’re a little late. Well we have family support where we are and both of our schools we want to attend are near by, but he wants to attend a campus in a different state. I don’t think he understands how hard it’s going to be to go to school and support ourselves in a completely new environment with absolutely no one. He’s not being realistic. We have no savings and no ideas lined up for a job. If we moves states I have no experience except minimum wage in home caregiving and he’s a line cook at a restaurant. There’s absolutely no way we can go to school and work while dealing with the stress of finding a place and reestablishing everything in a new state. He wants to move June 2022. I just can’t imagine myself setting us up for failure but he doesn’t see it that way! We’ve been together for 4 1/2 years and honestly I need some advice from people that aren’t my family. I’m lost. I want better for myself but I feel like I’m being made to choose.