Should I be worried?

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Sooo , My boyfriend just asked me if we could have a 3 sum.. I have no idea how to react to it, i feel a little sad and unwanted because it makes me think that just us having sex isn't good enough 🙁

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I have threesomes with my man and they only make me feel extra loved afterwards. Don't feel offended! It's just something guys do. 
Personally it's really fun and sexy and kind of a turn on to see my man pleasure another girl, knowing I still get to keep him at the end of the day. It's just personal preference :) but if you feel even the slightest bit off, don't do it

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Flip the script ! Ask him if its okay for you to have a 3some w/ you two and another guy.. If his answer is no, let that be yours too. And after tgat tell him how you feel about it, cuz tbh i'd slap my bf for even conjuring up the courage to ask me that 😖

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My BF is not into that🙌🏼, but my girl friend did that with her bf and her female cousin! Those girls don't talk together anymore and she almost broke up with him. Seeing her man fucking her cousin was a little too much I guess

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It's nothing to be worried about, and it may not mean he's not into you! Truth is its case sensitive. I think it may be something to be open to, but if you really don't feel comfortable doing it then don't feel obligated. If he loves you he'll understand! Sometimes men (and women) just want a little extra spice, it's nothing to worry about.

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You shouldn't be offended at all, it's just something about girl on girl action that men love. But if it bothers you then tell him how you feel and don't let him pressure you into it or don't you do it if your not comfortable and find other ways to spice up your sex life

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Don't be afraid to tell him that you're not comfortable with it! I brought it up with a guy that I was dating (I even offered to let him pick the girl) and he wasn't comfortable with the idea of someone else touching me of himself touching someone else, and that was perfectly okay with me!

I don't think it's weird to be curious and ask about it. What WOULD be weird is if you expressed your discomfort and he had a bad reaction to it. Asking? Not a red flag. Reaction to you not wanting one? Red flag.

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Tell him exactly what you told us. I personally don't like 3somes. I got asked the other day to be in a 3some.the guy wasn't my bf but idc..  I don't like sharing and I get jealous. I don't wanna share good dick and if I notice you giving the other girl more attention than me I'm going to just get up get dressed and leave. Lol that's just me. But be honest from jump with your guy he'll understand.

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Honestly have been put in that position and I went along and did it and it was probably the worst thing I ever did.
It's totally up to you! But I don't recommend it in the slightest

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