Do I have to keep my daughters side of the family involved in her life? The father and I aren’t together and he wants nothing to do with her. He has me blocked on everything and hasn’t seen her since she was 4 days old - so almost 2 months. Our relationship was incredibly toxic and although it hurts my heart for my daughter, a huge part of me is glad that I get to have her all to myself bc every time I have to speak to him or be around him I get anxiety to the point of being sick to my stomach. Ive tried everything I could to get him to be a father and I finally realized that isn’t my job, and if he wanted to he would. I’m tired of fighting with him and since he doesn’t want to be involved Im gonna wash my hands with him and be done. As for his family, they know he was abusive towards me, they know he cheated one me, they know he’s denied my baby is his, but they keep making excuses for all the shit he’s done and acts like it’s my fault he doesn’t see his daughter. Again, I’ve begged him to be a part of her life but a man who doesn’t want to be a dad won’t be. I want to wash my hands with them also just bc I’m sick of them sticking up for their son and acting like I’ve done something wrong when I’ve done nothing but try to be civil and he’s the one saying he won’t visit her bc he hates me. He’s tried telling his family the only way he would visit is if I left her at their house so he didn’t have to see me. I honestly don’t know where all his hate towards me has come from bc I have tried since day one of my pregnancy to keep him involved and all he’s done is put me through the wringer. His family even went as far as blaming his new girlfriend on why he doesn’t see our daughter which I don’t know her but I don’t believe she’s got anything to do with it, and if she does, why let a relationship hold you back from seeing your kids? Either way it’s wrong of him. I don’t know, I really want to quit associating with his family but I feel bad. Even though they get on my nerves and keep drama going they have been good to my daughter as far as buying her things she needs, and they have another granddaughter from another son that they’ve only met once so I would feel even worse by keeping her away and making it two granddaughters they don’t see but at the same time it’s not my fault that they’ve raised shitty sons. I don’t know, I just want things to be easier and I feel they would be if I can distance myself from them. It’s just too much drama and blame

put on me.