Why am I not as fertile as others?

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I got pregnant by surprise at 22 and it ended in an early miscarriage at 6 weeks. Then I got pregnant again at 25 from trying after 8 months. Now I'm 27 and my son is 20 months and don't understand how I'm not pregnant yet. Everyone around me gets pregnant within a year or 2 after having a baby. Not sure what do I need to do or take? It's depressing that I'm not as fertile as my friends. I also work full time and get no government benefits at all. It makes me sad that most women can stay home and get help from their partner and the government.

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I get being hurt but other women’s situations are:
A.) Absolutely NONE of your business 
B.) Not your place to judge 
C.) Nor your place to compare 
Not to mention how wildly inaccurate you are.. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

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"Most women" stay home and are supported by their husbands and/or the government??? 
Go to a doctor if you want to investigate any potential issues with fertility.

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So I know several women who don’t live off of others or get supported by their husbands. I’m one of them. That statement has nothing to do with fertility. Why even say that?

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I understand infertility struggles.  Though I’m not certain that’s what you’re truly going thru.  What struck me about this post is that you praise being subsidized by the government??  It sounds like you think that’s the way to go.   Why on earth would you WANT to be subsidized??  Super weird.  Aim high girlfriend😆

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It’s seems to me like you’re unhappy with life in general not just that you’re not as fertile as everyone else seems to be which is entirely perception. Unless you ask everyone who comes by how long they were trying to get pregnant (which would be weird) I’m sure your mind is assuming they didn’t struggle. If you did ask everyone I’m sure you would see an entirely different narrative. 
My biggest question is if your partner is unsupportive why are you trying to get pregnant? A baby will not fix your misery and will actually make this problem worse. Babies are not easy and if your relationship isn’t on good ground it will rock you. Literally. 
My next question is do you want a baby? Or government assistance? Government assistance isn’t going to make you fertile and being a stay at home mom won’t necessarily get you government assistance. Also being on government assistance usually means you’re broke - which isn’t something I’d be yearning for especially with a child dependent upon me. It sounds like you need to evaluate what your true priorities are before you continue trying to get pregnant.

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Quit your job and get help from your husband and the government. It’d probably help you get pregnant faster like “most women.”

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Well firstly you sound very fertile to me there’s women who spend yearssssss trying and never get a baby so you should feel lucky in that aspect . 
Also it’s not other woman’s fault that they get pregnant or have luck

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Im confused why you would want to have a child if u disappointed you dont get help from the govt? Thats you and your partner responsibilities especially if u having kids intentionally🤔.
    And maybe your body just needed rest. Are u tracking ovulation?

Why am I not as fertile as others?

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