So I had a baby with my now ex bf and we don’t talk and he knew I was pregnant and he was exited for 7 months then started to ignore me (i think he was talking to other girls) the thing is I’m 17 and my mom says that I shouldn’t even tell him the baby’s born, I also feel the baby wouldn’t be safe around him alone since my BD is a 💊 dealer if I felt my baby was safe I would’ve told him the baby was born in a heartbeat. But now everyday I keep having these dreams about my bd and him knowing our child is born and the dreams are good dreams so I’m thinking I kinda want to tell him but then I also don’t, what would u do? (Someone said it sounded childish to not inform him about the birth but the thing is I texted him 5 days before the baby was born to inform him but still no answer so if he doesn’t care enough to know why is it my place to tell him, why can’t he keep up? The only reason I’m debating it is because I want my baby to know his dad but it also wouldn’t really be safe)

Update again: someone said it’s also his child basically umm girl he can count he should know the baby is born by now it’s not rocket science 🙄 I have texted and called countless of times it’s not my fault he don’t know his child is born. Also if it’s “also his child” he needs to act like it.I pay for his diapers, his clothes and his formula etc. this child is not his as much as it is mine I do a lot for the baby he does nothing and he knows the child is born on his own and still has done nothing.