Had my Mirena removed Oct 2020 (no period or spotting for 4.5 years), started trying in Nov. I'm 31, husband is 38. Had a chemical pregnancy in January then nothing for another 5 months. Had a full fertility work up for both of us last month and was told everything was fine and we just probably needed more time. I had just told myself that after this month I was done with ovulation tests, done with stressing, done with counting every single day from ovulation... on a whim took a test yesterday (11dpo, 2 or 3 days before my missed period) and FINALLY. All that to say, don't give up and try your hardest to be patient!