He doesn’t eat me out but expects blow jobs

Daisy

My husband never eats me out, but I always have to give a blow job almost every time we have intercourse. Yes we talked about & he says he will gladly do it. I shaved 2 days ago telling him how excited I am … when I got to the bedroom he was half asleep and said he was too tired. Then the next day , he kept avoiding being in bed with me. Once I told him “you don’t have lie about wanting to eat me out” he again acted like he’s always willing. That night he ate me out ….. for just 1 mins and 30 seconds. He put no effort in it and seemed grossed out. He will literally make me suck on his 🍆 til he finishes…. With out pleasing me!!! He doesn’t finger me (when he does, he’s not trying) I have to be the one who stops sucking to have intercourse

who has had this problem???? This can’t be fair ?!