So my boyfriend and I are having our second child soon and at this point I don’t even want him in the room with me when I deliver. I only get to have one person there and he makes me feel awful about myself as is. He just the other night told me I don’t provide him with anything other than children and when I pointed out that I cook him meals, I support him, I want to hang out with him etc none of those things counted. He throws in my face that I don’t have a job. I quit working around half way through my pregnancy for a few different reasons main reason being my job was AWFUL and the restaurant was shit so I didn’t get good tips. Well now he throws in my face that I don’t work. I do have an OnlyFans that he told me I should start but with being a mom already I don’t have much time to do that. I just paid the internet and some of the electric bill and he’s still throwing in my face that I don’t work, he’s cheated (not sex) twice now during this pregnancy and I stayed because I wanted to try to make this work for our babies but every time something happens his reaction is oh I’m leaving it’s not worth staying etc. so with all this back story I don’t want him in the room now as it is, I want someone who is gonna be supportive and encouraging and loving and make me feel good during birth like one of my mothers. He has made it clear that if he’s not in the room we’re breaking up. Well considering I’m almost there anyways did you guys have the father of your child in the room if you weren’t together? Do you think I’m in the wrong for not wanting him in the room? The only reason I want him in the room is because although him and I aren’t in good terms I don’t want him to not be able to see his child’s birth but at the same time I think my comfort should matter too.