Low sex drive

Brook

I’m literally only 21 and I have hardly any sex drive. It’s a rare occasion that I get horny. Before going to doctors and getting an exam Bc I’m absolutely terrified to do so I want to know if anyone has other remedies or solutions? I’ve been looking up some libido pills and seeing which one seems to work best but I’m open to all options please help it’s really taking a toll on my relationship.