Okay y'all, I've been married to my wife for about a year. We have been together for four, she is truly the love of my life. Prior to meeting my wife I had small flings with a couple girls and only serious boyfriends before that. I've always considered myself to be bisexual but I also realize that sexuality is very fluid. That said, here we are four year into our relationship and I'm finding the only time I can even come close to enjoying when my wife wears the strap on is when I've been drinking. It makes me sad and frustrated. I had no problems when I was having heterosexual sex, other than maybe I was super submissive in those relationships. Contrarily, with me wife, from the beginning everything has been very verse with a lot of communication about preferences. There's a lot more I could say. But I guess my main question is am I the only one that went from having four male partners sexually to then being married to a woman and not liking the strap? Is that weird?