Maybe TMI?

So my cycles have been a bit messed up for the last several months. Im skipping cycles, the flows different etc.. which makes it super hard to be able to track anything to get my door in trying for a baby. But looking at this picture here, i started cramping, like full blown period cramps, on the 1st and have cramped (sometimes very mild to slightly uncomfortable) and had very light brown to pinkish discharge almost every day to about every other day since then. So for everyday that i cramped or had discharge, i marked it with a green checkmark. And the days we BD'd are the little hearts. The large pink days, i marked them as 'period' days because the flow was a bit heavier and was bright red with some tiny clots so i assumed that was my actual cycle starting, but it only lasted a day and half. Fast forward to now, I bled enough to get it on a small liner, but thats it. There's red blood and clots now but only when i wipe. Still not much of a flow. Idk what to do. Im not sure if this is a period or not, and my ob is no help. The only thing she says is to take birth control, no other insights given. Has anyone ever experienced this before?