Reposting and explaining for people who kink shame lol

So I posted on risque questions and answers about how my husband has a fantasy and wants me to be his "cam girl" and people pretty much just hated on it. I guess I should have explained that he and I are married and long distance so to keep things spicy we try to find things to do and as a joke he said he would pay me but he was also just going to buy me props like adult items that I can use on these videos while he's watching. I got a lot of hate saying that's messed up and that it's weird that I'll put things inside me and blah blah blah but how is it wrong I mean only fans is for actual strangers to watch you yet it's weird that my husband wants to watch his wife and strictly his wife?? I was just asking mainly for tips and what to show him and how to be confident and I also asked if there are any adult items I can get shipped discreetly due to other people seeing my mail all the time. I guess it's my fault for not explaining well enough but in my opinion there is nothing wrong with what my husband and I want to do so I don't understand why I got so much hate but either way I still have questions and I have no one else to talk to so that's why I came here.