Would you have a threesome with your boyfriend and another girl?

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No, I’m not built for that kind of lifestyle. It would piss me off seeing my bf kiss or touch another woman like that.

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Fuck no, had one in my dream and lost my shit. Heaven forbid it happened in real life. Not my cup of tea

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yes if we are dating casually but HELL NO if we are seriously committed. i can't risk a good relationship for something that can bring out drama. i can see it being interesting to spice up an old marriage tho

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No
1. Im not into girls
2. I don’t get into relationships to share my partner with someone else
3. Ive seen this kind of thing destroy relationships. My besties ex-fiancé left her for the girl they had a threesome with.

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I’ve seen those go really badly so no and my bf isn’t interested either

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With my husband yes. Eh only because it’s something I would want. My husband however isn’t on board with the entire thing so we haven’t done it. I mean it’s something we can talk about and I’ve brought up us dating a woman together. My husband understands why I have made such a request so it’s never been an issue for us. 
We just haven’t executed the act and maybe we won’t who knows 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Hell no! I dont share what's mine. And my baby is the same way 💙

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No. If I ever did that it would have to be with a guy I wasn’t in a relationship with to keep things drama free. I’ve never really been someone who gets jealous but I do with my boyfriend for some reason

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I’m not built to share my man, and my bf especially would be uncomfortable seeing me with another guy. I’m sentimental and would have a hard time drawing the line with a third person. I just want together time with my bf at this stage. We’re madly in love and I think it would cause a problem if I see him so much as kissing another woman. It is what it is. I don’t feel like I’m missing anything

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I personally would because we've discussed it extensively AND I have done a lot of inner work on myself so I'm at a healthy mental state to do so. Threesomes are not for every couple. It HAS to come from EVERYONE involved for it to work. If there's even one person that isn't convinced it's what they want, if there's even one person with ulterior motives or even one person that isn't romantically interested in the other two people involved then it shouldn't happen. There also should be a courting period where you and your partner, or the couple of you're the single joining, must have dates all together to see if you all mesh well together. Dates as in multiple not just one or two and they should be spaced out over a few weekends at the very least. There should be at least one where everyone can voice their concerns, set boundaries, resolve any lingering issues and talk about aftercare for each person involved so they all feel included and not used. It's a lot of work and tons of prep work that inexperienced couples tend to miss and that leads to heartache and break ups.