Ok so for the last year now my hubby has been having issues performing. It started with him running out of breath and not being able to keep going because he couldn’t breath. Then he had time where when that happened he just went soft and limp down there and we had to stop.

Ever since then he nevvvvver wants to have Sex because he’s afraid that’s going to happen again. He also keeps having to where he can’t cum and then ends up going soft. We just had to start having Sex less often like every other day or wait 2 days in between each time and that seemed to do the trick but now not so much.

Well here recently I’ve been doing everything to try and initiate sex and even went without trying to have sex for over a week so I was sure he’d be able to do it. So that morning I started grabbing his junk and telling him I wanted to have sex and he started doing like usual with excuses like well I need a shower first and let’s wait for our daughter to go to my Moms. Well I did everything he asked and he still fought me till finally he was like ok we’ll try and sure enough it didn’t even last 3 minutes but I realized something,

he’d been psyching himself out about it all day to where he’d just sit here allllll day long scared it wasn’t going to work. It could be a medical issue because he does have blood pressure issues and is on medication for blood pressure but I’m wondering if some of it could be psychological I just wanted to know if there was anything I could do to help him not get so scared. I feel so horrible for him I just want to help