I love my baby, feel like he doesnt care..

Seems like my man doesn't care about me or our unborn child. We've been ttc for 7 months before we got pregnant. He seemed so excited and everything. He said he was ready. So pregnant 8 months later. I'm now 9 weeks and he just gives me crap for any little reason. Calls me names. And I told him to please stop that it stresses me out and whatever I feel the baby feels and it's not good for the baby. But he says he doesn't care that "it's life". This breaks my heart. Not only because he says he doesn't care but because he said "it's life" no, my heart breaks that someone can be so selfish and there are so many girls who my heart breaks for. They go through all these fertility treatments etc. And he treats it like this. I'm seriously crying as I type this. It seriously breaks my heart. We're fortunate enough to get pregnant and come up with this? I don't know..