Can you ask the man in your life these Questions

I’m currently pregnant and we don’t know the gender. One thing on my mind is if this baby is a boy what I want to do as far as circumcision. I grew up Christian and it’s common practice to do it. But I’m not very religious and I know the other argument is it’s “cleaner” but of what I’ve found it really isn’t. I feel just like I don’t feel men should have a strong opinion on controlling our bodies it’s not really my space to control a boys. I feel like listening to moms tell me it’s abuse etc isn’t effective. I am so open either way and I just want to make the best choice. So I’m trying to ask MEN, what they think. He is the one effected and I would love to have the men in your life answer these questions. Again the MEN. Not you a woman.

1. If you are circumcised do you feel you were violated?

2. If you are or aren’t do you wish you were? (Circumcised or not)

3. Thoughts on the topic?

I really would appreciate their answers as I know this is a touchy subject.