My boyfriend is insanely involved in his best friends family, so much so he spends everyday with them, more so than me.

This doesn’t bug me, he’s been friends with him for years, but he’s so involved I actually found myself questioning if the eldest kid was his 😂.

I know it’s perfectly normal to be close with your friends, hell I live with mine, she married my brother and they live at home, but he tends to blow me off to see them, and has never invited me to meet them after 9 months, which kinda rubs me the wrong way.

Tomorrow is the eldest birthday, he’s turning 3 I believe, and he is going over there to spend time with them, after he already promised to help me with some moving. He also has a lunch date with the same man tomorrow as well. Again, plans he made after already making plans with me.

It’s not that I don’t want him with his friends, he has way more than me and I’m happy for him, however, he can’t say no to his friends. They have asked him to do the craziest thing and he does them because of “peer pressure”. So it’s very likely he just agreed because they asked. He’s also told me they don’t respect his decisions when he tells them no, and will just continue to berate him until he agrees.

BTW, his best friends family, the man, his wife, and three kids, all live on his grandpa’s property about 3 yards from his front door.

I realize this turned into a rant, I apologize. I must admit I am a little jealous of his friends, as he constantly makes time to see them, but not really me. He’s kinda been dropping hints he doesn’t really respect me and this feels like one of them. The first one I have posted of before, where he posted a video of him and a girl drunk hanging on eachother at a festival. When I confronted him I discovered it was a friend’s girlfriend, and he “didn’t realize how it looked” as I told him it looked like they were together. He did apologize but it just told me that him “not thinking” that something like that would bug me, says a lot.