Ive been with my husband for 6 years. We are happy, treat each other with respect, no trust issues, attracted to each other. But the last year or so, every time we have sex, he finishes and then it's over. He pulls out, pulls his pants on, and smacks my butt. Whether it takes him awhile to finish or even if he cums (literally) within one minute. Idk what to do. It hadnt always been like this, but off and on he has phases where he does this. This phase has lasted too long. I've told him twice before how it makes me feel, and that I have needs too, and he changes. But I shouldnt have to tell him a 3rd time. It's common sense.. I'm your wife and how could he not realize hes doing this?

What do i do? I know i can talk to him about it again but it irritates me that i even have to ask for an orgasm from him when he has one every other day. SOS sisters!