Can you get hsv 1 if the person doesn’t have an outbreak?

I am so mad. I know hsv 1 is common but mad at what this dude did. He’s my friend! We went to get food and we were talking. He asked for chapstick because he says his lips get chapped quick. I don’t share chapstick lol so I said no.

So he keeps licking them. I saw them and they looked perfectly fine. Very pink but no sores. We were talking about this party he didn’t go. He said 3 weeks ago he got a cold sore and he didn’t want to go with a cold sore.

So we go home and hugs me from the side. It was a friendly hug until…he leans forward and kisses my lips. I pushed him back and told him I don’t see him that way. He looked embarrassed. But can I get hsv 1 if there was no outbreak??

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