My 30 year old brother hates me

He blames me for everything which is going wrong.

I always got preferred and spoilt during our upbringing being the "intelligent cute girl". I do feel sorry for this.

I moved to a different city 10 years ago. Whenever there is a family argument now, he blames me and wants me out of the family. He blames me for not having a degree, because I got private tutoring as a child and he didn't.

I am expecting a child around his birthday and he hates me for it as my mom offered to help me and told him she might not make it to his birthday.

After she told him he wrote me a hate message saying he had enough with me, I am dead for him and the worst person in the world. He is ashamed to have someone like me in his family and that's it. I am dead for him and he hates me.

I am 8 months pregnant and I just cried all night long. It's so hurtful what he said.

Update:

Thanks for all your replys. Professional help would benefit him, but he is the kind of person who would never go for that. He just drawns his worries in beer. My husband has actually never seen him sober. Not even for a brunch meet up.

He now also blocked me which is very hurtful. I am having nightmares and struggle that he hates me so much. I am actually a bit afraid of seeing him again.