If YOU are the one who started the argument, should YOU be the one texting him/ apologizing? He hasn’t reached out

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I know its common sense that if you’re the one starting an argument then you should apologize. Well he’s the thing; I made a big scene and made the whole situation worse. It all started with me sharing my insecurities. He didn’t acknowledge how it makes me feel so he didn’t text me for a day. He said I’m too toxic. The next day he texted out of the blue just texting “Goodmorning baby” 
Again, he dismissed my feelings and pretended like we didn’t fight. I told him I was still bothered and again it escalated the situation. I told him I didn’t want to talk until we can talk about the issue. He went on 6 days with no text. 
I blocked him cause I feel like he has moved on. But I feel like I should have been the one texting him. Neither did.

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Okay, 6 days of no contact is insane and I’d be pissed and break up. 
Now, if you started the fight then YES why should he come texting first? He may think you’re still mad or bothered. He may be waiting on you! 
But…in this scenario I don’t think you’re the one to blame. I don’t really know what this argument was about but if he DISMISSED your feelings and instead chooses to go “silent” I’d be bothered and possibly break up. 
He may just not want to fight and let the argument go. But you told him you want to talk it out and goes 6 days missing. Idk if that’s necessarily ghosting or silent treatment. 
I just think he’s done with the relationship. I’m just a complete stranger on this app and don’t know him or you but one thing I can tell you is that it seems like both of you have a lot of pride and that leads to NO GOOD 😭😭

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Why would you apologize to someone that dismisses your feelings? Sounds like you were tying to communicate and he attacked back instead of at least trying to understand you. Sounds like he’s selfish and inconsiderate.

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It is not common sense that if u start an argument you need to apologize. Someone can treat u like shit daily n finally u snap starting an argument, u dont need to apologize for that!?  If you want to be an adult u act accordingly you dont block and play the waiting game cuz guess whos now sitting all alone!  You take accountability for your actions and that goes for both parties

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… why is he not your ex yet? Red flags everywhere

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If he dismissed your feelings, he’s selfish and doesn’t care how you feel. Since it’s been 6 days of no texts, calls or anything, I’d take it as we’re done and move on. I know I wouldn’t want to be with someone that could care less about my feelings and then just doesn’t talk to me for days. I’ve been in some very toxic relationships and I look back and think “wow I can’t believe I put myself through that”!

If YOU are the one who started the argument, should YOU be the one texting him/ apologizing? He hasn’t reached out

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