When should you have the “what are we” talk?

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I’ve been texting this guy for about a month and we finally had sex. My question is when should we have the “what are we” talk. I’m not a go with the flow person and I don’t like to assume.

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Like sex on the first date? Have you only met once? 
I would say that talk is not until after you’ve been consistently hanging out and going on dates for at least a month or two.I’m talking about real dates and hanging out (not just texting)

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I had the talk the first week cuz I was just done "messing around" and wanted a serious relationship. Been together 5 years now and married for 4 :)

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When you start wondering what you are.

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I'd say just talk to him about what he's looking for, how he sees your situation.

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Asap. You'd want to know if you're FWB or going somewhere. Prepare you heart.

When should you have the “what are we” talk?

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