So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now and have a child. I’m probably about as kinky as they come and he’s about as vanilla as they come. In the 2 years we’ve been together we have had sex maybe 3 times. He isn’t okay with slapping me. Spanking me. Tying me up. Nothing. I’ve mentioned my need for it but he just feels bad and says he’ll do better but it makes him uncomfortable. I don’t want him to feel uncomfortable but I am also not getting satisfied and at this point neither is he because sex is so boring for me. Any advice would be great! (Leaving him is not an option I love him just don’t love our sex life)