So my husband said this was really hot and he loved it but when he got home he took a shower and then nothing which is about the normal, we only make love or do anything if he wants to which is hardly ever I'm talking like 2 to 3 times a month and I would like 2 to 3 times weekly... I have talked to him about this a lot about how it makes me feel not wanted or like he's not attracted to me he assures me he does want me and thinks I'm beautiful and sexy but still hardly any sex, he says he just doesn't want it that much but is it wrong to want my husband more than a few times a month...what do I do?