My husband and I have already agreed to having an open relationship. It is something where ideally we can date another couple exclusively and switch partners so obviously we have to both be able to get along with both of them and have chemistry. If not a couple, we are okay to have just a girlfriend, but we’re hoping for it to be something that can be group dating essentially with each other. Where we all go out but just switch partners, go back to someone’s home and all participate sexually either all together or with our respective switched parter but ideally in the same room together.

I’m not looking for advice on how to go about the relationship but I am unsure about how to find a girlfriend or a couple that we want to date exclusively. Anyone have any advice on how to meet people who are in our area who are like-minded?