I'm a single mother to a 3 year old and my partner has 2 older girls from a previous marriage. We had sex and I took plan b and it failed. Today I am almost 8 weeks (2 months.) We had the same issue earlier this year and he manipulated me enough to convince me it was the right thing to do. I did it early on about 5-6 weeks.

When he gets mad he says it'll ruin his life and im going to end up being a single mom 2x. He tells me I'll get looked down upon for having 2 different children from 2 different men. I think deep down he hopes he can still get his family back with his ex wife. When he's calm he says he didn't mean it and "we're not ready. You need to finish school. We need to live life and travel!" To a certain extent he is right. But also my body is not a toy to just insert sperm and abort when he does not like the consequences.

The last time I aborted (which was my first time ever) he ghosted me and abandoned me at the hospital after my surgery. I know I should have never gone back but I stupidly believed him when he begged me he was going to change.

It'll be sad bringing another child to a broken home. He has a lot of scary outburst and having to deal w that the rest of my life I'm not sure if I want that. I don't mind being a single mother again.

But aborting at 9 weeks (by the time it gets scheduled) the fetus will have a face already and limbs.. The idea doesn't sit right with me.