My mom claims she has no trauma but I’ve come to realize that happy people don’t hurt other people. People who have healed from trauma don’t hurt others let alone their own kids everyday. Telling your kid everyday they are worthless, will never be loved by someone else, there’s something wrong with them, no one likes them, they never do enough, they’ll never be enough, and their body is never good enough is only ever spoken from someone who is hurting on the inside and have deep wounds. I don’t sympathize with that shit anymore. Hate when my step dad who also gets treated like scum of earth says she’s had a lot of loss and heart break in her life. Ok, that doesn’t give her a reason to be a cunt. Go ahead and tell yourself that if it helps you stay brain washed and get through the abuse better. Maybe I’m wrong but from what I’ve seen, hurt people hurt other people