So, me and my bf have been trying to have sex for a while now. I’m really tight and he’s pretty big. Every time we try to have sex, he’s only able to fit a little bit of the tip in and if he tries to go further, either it hurts me too much and we have to stop or it feels like it’s hitting a brick wall. We’ve tried lots of lube, lots of foreplay, different positions, etc. I just really don’t know what to do. I don’t want a different partner because I love him way too much. People keep saying to find someone else that i’m compatible with sexually but that doesn’t make sense to me because I thought vaginas were able to expand and accommodate for any sex partner. Also, i’m able to fit one finger and a tampon in me without a problem. So i’m not really sure what’s going on. It could be my nerves but if it was then why is he able to fit slightly in me?

Idk i just really need help and advice because i’ve been crying about this situation for so long. If anyone else has been through the same thing and has overcame this situation, please help me.