MIL tried to flip blame

1. she’s never apologized.

2. i didn’t “threaten” her, i just asked for her to respect boundaries in order to be in mine and my child’s life.

3. she was asked not to tell a certain group of people about my pregnancy bc of past things that have happened. Shes said she will tell anyone bc it’s her right as a grandmother.

4. the last part is her saying she’s happy and excited for us but she just doesn’t care to apologize.

My husband wants her to come to our gender reveal but i absolutely don’t want anything to do with her. All she does is stress me out and my life has been hell since marrying my husband bc of her. I’ve asked numerous times to sit down and talk and she’s said no there’s nothing to talk about. My husband had asked her to apologize for telling everyone how much she doesn’t like me and for lying to people about me threatening her, she’s told him she doesn’t see why she has to apologize. Even our marriage counselor has told my husband he needs to cut his mom off bc she’s too toxic for our marriage and the more he talks to her the mom she will think it’s ok to disrespect me bc he doesn’t put an end to it. Idk what to do anymore.