Wedding disaster đ
My fiancĂ© and I wanted it to just be him and I in the beginning and we planned on going to Florida to get married. Well his father found out and then talked him into letting his parents go well obviously then I had to ask my parents. As time went on both our families invited all of our families to go to our wedding in Florida. I voiced to my mom this isnât what I was wanting over and over. She even made remarks about how I donât have to get married and if we donât then they can use the venue on the beach to renew their vows. Well three weeks away from our wedding drama started between my sister and I (calling me a failure and Iâm a bad mom because our mom helps me a day out of the week with my six month old and Iâve been dealing with PPD) also drama in his family started. so I text my mom again telling her this isnât what we wanted and I donât want to do it anymore because I was getting no help planning it and now we have to figure everything out last minute when Iâve been asking for her help for months but she always said she didnât want to talk about it and all she said âitâs up to you itâs your weddingâ and then the next day acted like everything was okay went ahead and got everything planned and payed for after I told her itâs not what I want. I can up with the idea to ask my mom if my fiancĂ© and I could still use the beach that was already paid for to get married but it just be him and I and now my parents are threatening to cut me off if they canât go to the wedding and throwing everything that have ever helped me with (I didnât ask for their help or money) in my face and calling me selfish. I want to make it clear I only invited my parents and they took it upon their selfs to buy my siblings plane tickets and invite them on their own without me knowing. Idk what to do now đ am I wrong or are they?
Edit: I am in no way saying they canât still go to Florida and we all could still go on a family vacation.
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