My experience

I’m posting in here in hopes some of you will be open to some advice ! 3 years ago it took me about 8 months to get pregnant with my first. I know it may sound absolutely ridiculous because it’s not that long but when you’re testing everyday and crying over everyone else being able to conceive within 2 months it’s hard. I tested opks, pregnancy tests, bbt, pineapple core, preseed, i did it all. Finally after 7 months i stopped. I gave up obsessing and got pregnant that month. Fast forward my second son we just let it all be. No tests just let it happen. I didn’t even keep track of any timing of start to conceiving. Fast forward again we were trying for #3 since December. Testing with opks, bbt, tracking periods. I was diagnosed with pcos in February and have only had 3 cycles since December and was for sure this would be the longest. I stressed and obsessed over it every month crying, getting angry, not wanting to test anymore and ending up testing to get yet another negative result. Until last month. I put it in gods hands. I’m not here to brag nor rub this is anyone’s face but to simply give some insight on my experience trying to conceive. I tested yesterday and received a very positive pregnancy test. I have not had a cycle since may and a month ago received a negative test. I have realized the more i obsess and stress over getting that positive test i stressed my body and it never helped in the end. Take a step back from obsessing and ENJOY THE RIDE. My poor husband was never enjoying the moment because i would obsess over the outcome and he felt as if it were a job. Enjoy your time and when your body is ready your baby will come. I’m wishing you all the best of luck. This journey is not easy. Especially not mentally. Good luck beautiful ladies ♥️