How do I get him not to cum in 30 seconds?

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My boyfriend cums SO Fast. It's crazy I never have been with a guy that is like a min man. I've told him to masterbate so he could last longer but he said he just doesn't get horny by himself. I'm at a point where I think he needs to go to the doctor or I'm going to get a dildo. Any Advice!?

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That's horrible. Get a dildo girl! Or have him make you cum before he can enter you...including using a dildo on you. Gotta tell him how you feel and what works for you or else you'll be miserable. Good luck!

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I slow it down every once in a while, we've been together two and a half years so when I know it's getting too much for him, I'll pull him out, wait a couple minutes and continue! :) hope that helps! Also, I don't ALWAYS do that every once and a while.

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My best friend has this problem, Viagra helps and Celexa has a side effect of delayed or no orgasm. (I'm the husband posting)

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Keep it going. The guy needs to work up his stamina by having lots of sex and the girl needs to be patient during the process. Soon enough he'll be able to perform for longer.

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What if you go for a second round? Is he still just as fast?

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My SO is like this if we haven’t done it in a while, like I’m visiting my family out of state or something. But even times when he finishes like after a few mins and I want more, we keep going. He might use a toy on me or his fingers and then he gets turned on again and we have sex again. Then it takes him longer the second time around. 
A doctor might be able to help if he actually has something medically wrong, but otherwise idk. If he don’t get turned on by himself, he can watch you touch yourself and he touch himself. Sometimes a good foreplay session does the trick.

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Yeah my husband and i have been together for 5 years and we were also eachothers first. The sex is always good and fulfilling enough but it only ever lasts 10 minutes from four play on. He stops several times to make sure he doesn't come but he still does on accident anyway. It's really too bad.

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Happens to my hubby just recently after stopping taking pain meds

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Lmfao I'm sorry for laughing but the whole Dr or dildo thing ha ha. My fiance used to go for a long time, in fact we can't do doggy unless I'm finished and he is ready to cum because he would finish pretty quickly. I've just adjusted. Also think his weight gain has something to do but yeah. Best of luck to you.

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change positions and speed a bit, also you can get cock rings which might help him?

How do I get him not to cum in 30 seconds?

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