My “bf” came back after ignoring me for 8 days after a massive fight. We’ve had arguments and I’ve been told by his mother he gets violent at home when I don’t pick up the phone. Truth is, when he calls he just yells at me ….

Apparently he drinks when we argue but honestly I don’t think so. I’ve seen alcoholic behavior for the past 4 months. One time, we were going to have dinner. He got mad because I didn’t want to stop at a liquor store. We finally stopped and he got a bottle. He said that’s the only way he can have appetite.

Other occasions, I’ve seen a case a beer in his car. I didn’t make a big deal since maybe he went to a party, But I was told by his mother he finishes a 12 pack on weekends. Which I don’t know if that’s a lot?

This time we argued. He told his 2 cousin, 3 brothers to block me. I really found that unnecessary. He told his family that he didn’t want to be with me and told them I love to argue. He tells his mom everythjng and his mom always comes to me trying to find the real story. We are freaking 25. It’s embarrassing his mother knows everything. I could never discuss shit with him because his mother knows.

So one example was I sent him a picture of me in a cute outfit. First thing he says is “where you going dressed like that?” Literally was a crop top and shorts and tells me “do you see me walking with my dick out” so I call him out and tell him to stop being so controlling. If I ask him “where are you at?” He takes it as if I’m spying on him or tracking him. He tells that to his mother and I’ve explained that is not the case. I just simply ask. The day I asked he sends me a picture of himself in the toilet. He goes “here you fucking go” I asked where he was because I wanted to call him. He tells his mother I want to know everything he does

I’ve explained the situation to her and if he wants to leave the door is open.

Now he’s back acting like nothing happened after 8 days of being no where. So a week ago, my mom ran into his brother at the market. My mom smiled and his brother dogged my Mother out. For what??

Last time I drove myself 50 min to his house to visit him when his car was under repair. Drove myself and literally 2 of his brothers dogged me out like they’re annoyed of me. His father doesn’t talk to me as much so why the fuck do I gotta continue being in a relationship.

I don’t think I did anything wrong. I simply call him out on things I don’t like the drinking and he blames me. Don’t know what he tells his family

He called me crying and begged to work this out but honestly this don’t feel the same. Why would I be with someone who’s family doesn’t like me? Would this whole family shit bother you???