Late announcement?

Nevada

Anyone wait quite a while to announce? I'm 14w today and my second appointment is this comming Friday (14w 5d) but I just feel like something is off compared to my first so I've only told immediate family and I'm waiting to post on fb. I've had lots of stomach pains, pinching pains in my lower stomach about where the round ligament is, muscle tiredness in my upper stomach, and aching period type throbing pain in my back that I don't remember with my first. Now I am thinking of waiting until closer to 20 weeks just because its been so hard. I thought my gallbladder was messed up because I literally got sick every time I ate for 2 full weeks and then switched to a gallbladder diet and have kept everything down for a week but still don't feel great. Did blood testing and will learn more at my appointment but I'm just not in a hurry to tell people. I never wanted to have a biological and after my first pregnancy I DEFINITELY never wanted to do it again and my daughter will be a month or so from being 5 when this one is born. We finally got foster adoptive certified and because of that I compromised and we are having one last baby. My husband said we can adopt two if we have two. However, I just feel like I wanna keep this in until I'm certain that it's going to be OK and baby is OK. Am I crazy?🤣