I guess this is more of a vent than a question. I keep fighting with my husband all of the time. He is always getting on my nerves and his lack of sex drive makes me feel really undesirable and his comments about my weight make me feel worse! All together, I just feel like we are headed for a disaster if something doesn't change. Everyone told me having a baby puts strain on a relationship but I'm not sure if it has just made our issues surface more. I feel I am losing respect for him but the problem is I am losing respect for myself as well.