Sex without consent?

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My boyfriend and I were both doing things with our hands but had never discussed going the all the way. But then one night he was fingering me and I didn't know that he had actually put his dick in me until afterwards when he told me.

But I never gave him consent, and I wasnt ready for that

What do I do?

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That's not slandering...that's rape. He's an asshole. Please get away from him.

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That rubbish, that's completely unacceptable of him. Don't stay with him, things could escalate. And for him to tell you that you don't know your own bodily rights, it's disgusting. Get away from him.

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From experience, he'll do it again and it'll escalate past what he's already done. Seriously think about what he did and if you want to be with someone like that

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That is point blank fucked up. He raped you, and you need to get rid of him. Dump him and never look back.

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Something is weird about this post... I can't imagine not knowing that someone put their penis in you, as both of their hands would be free, a penis is a LOT thicker and longer than fingers, you bother have to be naked, you both have to be in a certain position, etc etc.

That being said, if what you're saying is true, I wouldn't be so quick to jump to rape. Now. If you guys had previously discussed sex and you said no, he had no right to do it. However, if you guys never had the discussion, there's every chance in the world that he thought you guys were progressing naturally and thought you knew you guys were having sex (as most girls can feel a penis inside them). If you feel in your heart that there was malicious intent, then you definitely need to distance yourself from this person. But you know the situation far better than anyone on here, so no one can tell you what happened.

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Tell him

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If you don't find it a problem then talk to him about if and say how you feel a bout it 😃

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Talk to him about it... Don't make decisions too soon. Communicate in person about it and then decide.

Sex without consent?

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