I have a tendency to be a bit of a pessimist and a worrier and one of my biggest nightmares or passing thoughts would be what if I'm not there?

Of course that then leads me to contemplate if I were to have my baby when that happened, what would I want to leave behind for them? What lessons would I have wanted to learn for them? Secrets to homework given? Something they keep with them in the times they need me most?

For me, I would want to give them: a walk-through of how to tell when someone loves them, the confirmation that they were beyond wanted - never an oops or a mistake - and the viewpoint that more, and the directions to drive to my favorite hotspring where all of my fondest memories are.

What about you?