I’ve been with my bf for almost a year now and everything has been going good. I love him a lot and we stay over at each other’s places all the time I even have my own space in his dresser and closet.

Yesterday morning I went for a jog (tryna be more active and healthy) and when I came back I was soaked in sweat. It’s hot af here in Texas. I come in and he’s getting some work done (we both work from home) so I pop my head into his room and tell him I’m gonna jump in the shower. So I strip out of my clothes and put them in the hamper. The hamper is in his closet and his bathroom is down the hall. I go and take a shower and I’m out in 10 mins. I go back into his room to get dressed and I see he isn’t on the bed so I assume he’s in the living room or something. So I get dressed and go to find him. I find him in the laundry room off the side of the kitchen and his back is to me. Before I can say anything to him I notice he’s got something to his nose and inhaling really deep. That’s when I notice the purple fabric in his hands and realize that he’s sniffing the dirty underwear I just ran in… I didn’t know what to think or even say so I hurry up and walked back into his room before he saw me and made a big show of calling out to him before walking back to the kitchen.

I’ve been trying to figure out what to say to him or if I should say anything to him at all. I don’t think this is the first time he’s ever done something like this. Because there have been times I noticed my underwear in the laundry room or on the floor when I thought I put it in his hamper. I just thought maybe I wasn’t paying attention enough and setting them down by the hamper instead of in it or he decided to do some laundry and picked up some of my clothes. Idk what to think. I’m caught up between thinking it’s pretty fucking weird to it’s nothing to even talk about. So what if he sniffs my used underwear🥴 I dont know . Has anyone had any experience with this? Do y’all think it’s weird that he sniffs my used underwear?