Ok so i am the Grinch when it comes to Christmas and I have my own personal reasons for it. But my Husband is the most anti-holiday person I have ever met. I'm not talking JUST Christmas but any holiday or birthday. He tells me it's because of the hardships when he was a kid and when he was deployed (his ex wife sent him divorce papers for christmas, the cheating #$&/#@....sorry rant) but that was her. And he has a new family that want to celebrate holidays

I have a 8yo son and Christmas is about the kids. So I fake it. But he's not willing to partake in the celebration because he feels that it's stupid.

How do I deal with that?

Have you ever experienced anything like this?